Good Bye to Carol

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Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of page Link to this message  By Mike Hager on Sunday, April 22, 2012 - 08:34 am:

On the 20th I lost my best friend and wife of 43 years. She had liver disease and died in my arms. She enjoyed the Ohio Jamborees and the wonderful friends we made. We spent the winter in Hilton Head South Carolina spending 24 hours a day enjoying God beautiful work. She will be missed.


Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of page Link to this message  By Rob Heyen - Nebraska on Sunday, April 22, 2012 - 08:38 am:

Mike,
Sorry to hear of your loss.
Rob


Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of page Link to this message  By John Danuser on Sunday, April 22, 2012 - 08:40 am:

Mike very sorry for your loss John and Karen Danuser Fulton Mo MTFCA # 2088


Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of page Link to this message  By Royce in Dallas TX on Sunday, April 22, 2012 - 08:45 am:

Very sorry to hear that Mike. Take care and please accept my condolences for losing your wife.


Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of page Link to this message  By Bob Coiro on Sunday, April 22, 2012 - 09:39 am:

My heart goes out to you, Mike. Deepest condolences for such a devastating loss. May God bless and strengthen you and your family.


Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of page Link to this message  By A. Gustaf Bryngelson on Sunday, April 22, 2012 - 09:57 am:

Hello Mike,
I am very sorry to hear this, I hope you are well.
Best wishes
Gus


Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of page Link to this message  By Dick Lodge - St Louis MO on Sunday, April 22, 2012 - 09:59 am:

Mike, my heartfelt condolences.


Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of page Link to this message  By Keith Gumbinger, Kenosha, WI on Sunday, April 22, 2012 - 10:08 am:

Mike - Our sympathy and prayers go out to you and your family.

Keith and Carol Gumbinger


Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of page Link to this message  By Dave Dufault on Sunday, April 22, 2012 - 10:34 am:

Mike,
So very sorry to read of the void now in your life. May your Higher Power soon give you the Grace, Strength and Joy of wonderful memories of your times together.
You folks will be together again someday...others and I believe this life is but a temporary visit here.


Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of page Link to this message  By Norman T. Kling on Sunday, April 22, 2012 - 10:34 am:

Sorry! May God comfort you.
Norm


Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of page Link to this message  By George Button III (Chip), Lake Clear, NY on Sunday, April 22, 2012 - 10:39 am:

Our deepest sympathy to you and your family.


Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of page Link to this message  By Dennis Halpin on Sunday, April 22, 2012 - 10:46 am:

My sympathies too.


Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of page Link to this message  By Dan Treace, North FL on Sunday, April 22, 2012 - 10:46 am:

Mike
My sympathy to you for such a dear loss.


Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of page Link to this message  By Craig Sutton on Sunday, April 22, 2012 - 11:48 am:

My condolences Mike.


Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of page Link to this message  By JAMES STARKEY Naperville, IL on Sunday, April 22, 2012 - 11:53 am:

Mike,
God Bless you both.
Jimmy


Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of page Link to this message  By Gary Schreiber- Aiken, SC on Sunday, April 22, 2012 - 11:57 am:

Deepest sympathies from Denise & I.


Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of page Link to this message  By J Berch on Sunday, April 22, 2012 - 12:04 pm:

Mike, I'm very Sorry to hear about the loss of your wife.

John


Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of page Link to this message  By John Burgett,Camargo,Illinois on Sunday, April 22, 2012 - 12:19 pm:

Mike, I am sorry to hear of your loss.

John


Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of page Link to this message  By William L Vanderburg on Sunday, April 22, 2012 - 12:50 pm:

:-(


Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of page Link to this message  By Darren J Wallace on Sunday, April 22, 2012 - 01:18 pm:

My Condolences as well.May we all pray for you at this most difficult time.
I know your pain. I lost my wife to Lupus in 2001.She was only 31.
May God grant you peace and comfort during this very sad time.


Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of page Link to this message  By Wes Nelson ........Bucyrus, MO on Sunday, April 22, 2012 - 02:03 pm:

My condolences Mike.


Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of page Link to this message  By David Stroud on Sunday, April 22, 2012 - 02:53 pm:

My condolences too Mike. Dave


Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of page Link to this message  By George Clipner-Los Angeles on Sunday, April 22, 2012 - 04:58 pm:

So sorry. Bless her heart. George n L.A.


Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of page Link to this message  By Erich Bruckner, Vancouver, WA on Sunday, April 22, 2012 - 05:30 pm:

Mike, So sorry to hear she has passed. I am sure she was a blessing to you in the times you shared together.


Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of page Link to this message  By Craig Anderson, central Wisconsin on Sunday, April 22, 2012 - 05:58 pm:

Just the other day a father and now a wife....... :-(
My sympathy to you and your family.


Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of page Link to this message  By Steve McClelland on Sunday, April 22, 2012 - 06:16 pm:

Very sorry Mike.....


Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of page Link to this message  By ken bechtel on Sunday, April 22, 2012 - 06:18 pm:

God will see you through the days ahead Mike.


Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of page Link to this message  By George Harrison,Norco Ca on Sunday, April 22, 2012 - 06:39 pm:

So sorry for your loss.


Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of page Link to this message  By Richard Gould on Sunday, April 22, 2012 - 06:58 pm:

Very, very sorry.


Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of page Link to this message  By Hap Tucker on Sunday, April 22, 2012 - 09:27 pm:

Mike,

I’m so sorry to hear of your loss. I can only imagine the waves of emotions that rush through your mind and heart. The “what if’s” and “if onlys.” The very happy memories the pain of loss. Take your time and cry when you need to – that’s a technical term for part of the grieving process along with anger and several other intense feelings. Be sure to work through that process -- and it is work and it does take time. There are several good books and resources on the 5 stages of grief. When I lost my Dad and later lost my Mom I went through all of those stages both times. If you are not familiar with them or if you would like a refresher -- please see: http://www.recover-from-grief.com/index.html or http://www.way2hope.org/5_stages_of_grief_and_loss.htm or one of the other websites that describe them.

And when you have some private time (I hate to cry in public) there is a country song I would like to share with you. It’s by Brad Paisley called “When I Get Where I am Going.” Even though it says “don’t cry for me down here” it’s really ok to get misty eyed – sometimes it expresses the way we really feel. And yes – there will be some sort of 30 second commercial for something at the beginning – but then the song starts. It does a good job of capturing that “bitter sweet” feeling and for me it was and still is helpful for processing my feelings. It is located at: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yYHT-TF4KO4 . And remember to “turn off the video at the end or at least hit replay” as sometimes the song that follows doesn’t fit in at all. And if you don’t like country songs – feel free to skip it.

We will be praying for you and your extended family. If I can be of any help – please drop me a note.

Respectfully submitted,

Hap l9l5 cut off


Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of page Link to this message  By Michael Mullis on Sunday, April 22, 2012 - 10:20 pm:

Mike, I am so very sorry to hear of your loss.


Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of page Link to this message  By Donald Manlove on Sunday, April 22, 2012 - 10:42 pm:

Mike, I know just what you are going through, I lost my wife of 30 years in 2009, I don't think you ever get over it but you just learn to live with it but I promise you will laugh again and enjoy life again but at the same time she will always be in your memories

Don


Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of page Link to this message  By Steve Boothroyd, Victoria, B.C. on Sunday, April 22, 2012 - 11:25 pm:

Our condolences Mike.

Regards,

Steve


Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of page Link to this message  By Gene Carrothers Huntington Beach on Monday, April 23, 2012 - 12:37 am:

My deepest sympathy, I've lost two wives and have felt the great loss.

Another country song that really hit close to me is "If Heaven wasn't so far Away" Someday check it out.

Warm Regards to you

Gene


Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of page Link to this message  By Wayne Sheldon, Grass Valley, CA on Monday, April 23, 2012 - 02:25 am:

It always saddens me to hear of such a loss. My sympathies, my condolences.
Do take care,


Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of page Link to this message  By Mike Hager on Monday, April 23, 2012 - 06:49 am:

Thank all of you for the thoughts and prayers. They have helped me make it through. God bless each of you.


Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of page Link to this message  By Joseph A. Stearns on Monday, April 23, 2012 - 09:08 am:

So sorry to hear of your loss--so sorry. Joe


Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of page Link to this message  By Bill Severn on Monday, April 23, 2012 - 10:00 am:

Mike,

My heart goes out to you and your family. I lost my wife of 53 years this past December. There is nothing that I or anyone else can say that will cure the hurt or fill the loss. Only time will heal.

The greatest help has been family, and of course Model 'T'ing. The wonderful people in this hobby have been a great help to me.

Bill Severn


Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of page Link to this message  By Harvey Decker on Monday, April 23, 2012 - 10:23 am:

Now in the arms of Angels.......


Our sincere condolences.

Harvey & Karen Decker


Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of page Link to this message  By Jerry VanOoteghem on Monday, April 23, 2012 - 12:27 pm:

Mike,

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. I too enjoy the Ohio Jamborees and am sure I must have met you and your wife. Though life won't be the same, you will find strength that you may not know you had to go on.


Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of page Link to this message  By John Semprez on Monday, April 23, 2012 - 08:49 pm:

Mike,

I'm So sorry to hear of your loss. May the Good Lord be with you in this trying time. You have my condolences and prayers. - John


Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of page Link to this message  By Jerome Hoffman, Hays KS on Tuesday, April 24, 2012 - 12:36 am:

Mike, even thou we've never met in person, I hope you take my condolences as genuine hearing if your great loss. Keep her in you memories every time you drive your Model T, that she enjoyed sharing with you.


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