Hey Jay !

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Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of page Link to this message  By Steve Tomaso - Milton,WA on Monday, July 14, 2014 - 04:06 pm:

Just wanted you to know that I believe there's a lot of us out here that are thinking about you & your "better" half and hoping you both brighter days ahead !

Your Friend,
Steve


Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of page Link to this message  By David Dewey, N. California on Monday, July 14, 2014 - 08:35 pm:

Amen!!


Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of page Link to this message  By Hap Tucker in Sumter SC on Monday, July 14, 2014 - 08:41 pm:

Ditto,

Respectfully submitted,

Hap l9l5 cut off


Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of page Link to this message  By Danial - Veneta OR US Earth Solar System on Monday, July 14, 2014 - 08:43 pm:

I second that.

Jay, I know it's been a tough deal for you and your family. Words can't express my feelings adequately. Just want you to know that Carol and I continue to think about you guys and hope and wish for peace for all of you.

Take good care.


Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of page Link to this message  By Mike Walker, NW AR on Monday, July 14, 2014 - 09:23 pm:

Jay - Steve said it very well, I think. Many of us are thinking of you and your family and hoping for the best possible outcome from all of this. I can't imagine what it must be like to lose a child. I hope I never have to go through that.


Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of page Link to this message  By Les Burg on Monday, July 14, 2014 - 09:40 pm:

I agree


Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of page Link to this message  By Jay - In Northern California on Tuesday, July 15, 2014 - 11:05 am:

Thanks! All the thoughts and prayers from this fine group of people have been very much appreciated by me and my wife. Its going to take us a while to wrap our minds around the fact that our son is with us now in spirit only.


Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of page Link to this message  By Dick Fischer on Tuesday, July 15, 2014 - 11:52 am:

You may be further along in the grieving process than you suspect, Jay. You said,

" Its going to take us a while to wrap our minds around the fact that our son is with us now in spirit only."

When I lost my Dad my initial sensation was that he was simply "gone" and I'd never see him again. It was a terrible, empty feeling.

It took years after losing him to realize that I am the embodiment of my father. His spirit lives on through me. If I have any skills at all it's because I inherited them from him, or was taught him. When I work on the T (it was his car first), I'm doing just what he would be doing if he were still with us. He truly does guide my hands. When I work on the T I feel a kinship, knowing that he once stood right where I'm standing, leaned over just as I'm doing, his back probably hurt just like mine does, and maybe he even uttered the same words out of the same frustrations.

After 30+ years I still miss him, but I feel a very real warmth and kinship in the realization that I'm the embodiment of his spirit and his aspirations.

We're all pulling for you, Jay.

Dick


Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of page Link to this message  By Bob Coiro on Tuesday, July 15, 2014 - 02:11 pm:

You and your wife are in my thoughts and prayers, Jay.

Bob


Top of pagePrevious messageNext messageBottom of page Link to this message  By Fred Dimock, Newfields NH, USA on Tuesday, July 15, 2014 - 02:54 pm:

Jay - Just letting you know that I think of your and your family often!


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